Blame + Surrender in Relationship now

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 3

How do you stand in this now moment when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story, not yours?   When their story says, “you make my life unbearable because I feel inferior” what do you do with that as a now experience? How do you know […]

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Blame + Surrender in Relationship compare

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 2

Being blamed for being (or having) what others think they aren’t (or don’t have) is not uncommon. We probably don’t realise how much we compare ourselves to those around us, to those in our field (including people on television and social media). In fact, it becomes so invisible that we think our dislike of these people with their happy faces […]

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Blame + Surrender in Relationships

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 1

Q. How do you stay present when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story?   Example of blame. In her story about me (in comparison to the story about herself) it looks like I have the life she wants. It looks like I have the relationship she wants. […]

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