Blame + Surrender in Relationship now

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 3

How do you stand in this now moment when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story, not yours?   When their story says, “you make my life unbearable because I feel inferior” what do you do with that as a now experience? How do you know […]

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blame + Surrender in Relationship politeness

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 4

Human politeness is limited because it tells you a story from your cultural bias. It says “being friendly is good but feeling angry is bad” so you pretend to be someone you’re not and live in a constant state of blame, shame and control. Whereas, intuitive-logic has access to all the information your human politeness […]

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Blame + Surrender in Relationships

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 1

Q. How do you stay present when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story?   Example of blame. In her story about me (in comparison to the story about herself) it looks like I have the life she wants. It looks like I have the relationship she wants. […]

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