The beauty of being heard

Admittedly, I was on drugs (painkillers) today but/and yet talking > to people I love > about what’s going on for me > in a language that makes sense to my cosmology, was all it took to fill me with happy energy otherwise called JOY! I know “they” say, all you have to do is […]

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Blame + Surrender in Relationship now

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 3

How do you stand in this now moment when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story, not yours?   When their story says, “you make my life unbearable because I feel inferior” what do you do with that as a now experience? How do you know […]

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blame + Surrender in Relationship politeness

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 4

Human politeness is limited because it tells you a story from your cultural bias. It says “being friendly is good but feeling angry is bad” so you pretend to be someone you’re not and live in a constant state of blame, shame and control. Whereas, intuitive-logic has access to all the information your human politeness […]

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Blame + Surrender in Relationship compare

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 2

Being blamed for being (or having) what others think they aren’t (or don’t have) is not uncommon. We probably don’t realise how much we compare ourselves to those around us, to those in our field (including people on television and social media). In fact, it becomes so invisible that we think our dislike of these people with their happy faces […]

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Blame + Surrender in Relationships

Blame + Surrender in Relationships part 1

Q. How do you stay present when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story?   Example of blame. In her story about me (in comparison to the story about herself) it looks like I have the life she wants. It looks like I have the relationship she wants. […]

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The Rearrangement of Things

The diversity of ways one can focus on what else is going on is almost an unknowable number. It is an unending thread that leads us around the world and back again as all genders, in all times, under all conditions. Such is the nature of oneness rearranging itself to be everyone and everything that can be known-thought-believed-argued or created… […]

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Name Calling, Truth Telling & Simply Being

I am not a victim of circumstance. Nor am I a victim of the system currently in place. If I say, “I need to unpack the dishwasher before I write down my stream-of-consciousness brilliant idea…” then I do so because I have decided that this is necessary; knowing I have a choice. Knowing I can […]

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